CHRISTIAN LIFE COACH COLLECTIVE~ Women Making Impact and Income as Coaches

303-Myth 16: I Don't Want to Say I’m a Coach Until My Message and Process are Perfected

CLARITY COMES FROM ACTION- Not from waiting and thinking and perfecting. So if you’ve ever hesitated to call yourself a coach until your message was crystal clear and your process was perfectly mapped out, this episode is for you. We’re breaking the myth that you have to have it all figured out before you can begin.
Your clarity grows as you go : not before you start.
Key Takeaways:
You don’t need a perfect message or framework to start coaching- coaching begins with real conversations, not a branded process.
Clarity is a result of courageous action, not a requirement before it.
Your process and your voice will mature as you coach, not before- give yourself permission to grow publicly.
Listener Challenge:Announce your coaching services to your spheres of influence, even (especially) if you feel unprepared.
Offer a discovery call about coaching and/or one free session to someone who needs help.
Draft a simple, informal email to a friend or colleague explaining what you do and how you can help.
Reflect: What did you learn? What surprised you? How did taking action make you feel?
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302-Myth #15: I Should Always Be ‘On' and Available for Every Client

HEALTHY BOUNDARIES HELP EVERYONE- What if the very thing you’re avoiding - boundaries - is actually the thing that would make you a better coach? In this episode, we’re talking about why boundaries matter, how to set them, and what happens when you don’t. If you’ve ever felt like being accessible all the time is part of your “value,” let’s untangle that myth right now. Your sanity, your sleep, and your clients will thank you.
3 Key Takeaways:
Being overly available to clients often leads to burnout, not better results.
Boundaries don’t repel clients - they actually attract the right ones and model emotional health.
You can serve with more joy and clarity when your time and energy are protected.
Listener Challenge:
Decide on your official availability (even just messaging hours or session blocks) and communicate them to current or future clients. Post it where they’ll see it. You’re allowed to protect your peace.
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301-Myth #14: Free Coaching Will Lead to Paying Clients

VALUE HAS A COST- While free stuff can open some doors, it can also quietly devalue your work and train people to expect transformation without commitment. I'll explain in this episode how you can offer free value and when, teach you how to create a big-hearted entrepreneur benevolence plan, and inspire you to grow your business with integrity and clarity in a way that supports your calling and blesses others.
Key Takeaways:
Free isn’t always valuable — People often don’t commit to what they get for free. Without investment, there’s usually little transformation or follow-through.
Your time is a premium offering — You don’t need to give away sessions to prove your value. Share insights in scalable ways like guides, webinars, or content.
Use free strategically, not excessively — Limit discovery calls and use them as previews, not full coaching sessions. Let your funnel lead to paid commitment, not endless free offers.
Listener Challenge:Instead of offering free sessions, create a piece of free content that shows your value and leads to a paid offer. It could be a short guide, a mini course, a webinar invite, or a checklist. Post it and promote it—and watch how people engage when they’re offered direction instead of a freebie. 
Write your own 3-sentence response for when someone asks for free coaching. Then write a short note to yourself for the moments you’re tempted to give it all away. 
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300-Myth #13: Creating Boundaries Now Will Help Me Protect Myself Later

BOUNDARIES BUILT ON FEAR FAIL- In this episode of the Christian Life Coach Collective, we tackle the common belief that setting up strict boundaries before you even begin coaching will protect you from burnout, harm, or difficult clients. While boundaries are essential, many new coaches set limits based on fear—not experience or calling.
You’ll learn how to discern between protective wisdom and projected fear, and how to build boundaries that serve your purpose, not shrink it.
3 Key Takeaways:
Fear-based boundaries can keep you from stepping into what God is calling you to do.
Real boundaries are built through experience, not assumptions.
Healthy boundaries should grow from your values and purpose—not from projected “what ifs.”
Listener Challenge:
Take inventory this week:Where have you set boundaries based on fear or imagined scenarios?Ask God to show you what needs to stay, what needs to shift, and what walls can come down so that you can lead and serve in freedom.
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299-Myth #12: Selling Is Selfish... and Coaching Is Supposed to Be Selfless

SELLING IS SERVING, NOT SELFISH- Many Christian coaches struggle with the idea of charging for their services, believing that helping others should be offered freely. In this episode, we bust the myth that selling your coaching is selfish and reframe it as an act of service. We talk about overcoming the guilt around sales, how to confidently offer your services, and why charging is essential for sustainable, life-changing impact.
3 Key Takeaways:
Selling your coaching is not selfish—it’s how you serve others sustainably.
When you reframe sales as offering solutions, the fear and guilt start to fade.
Charging for your services gives you the capacity to stay in your calling long-term.
Listener Challenge: 
Write your “solution statement” using this format:“I help [specific person] go from [struggle] to [outcome] by [your method].”Then, share it with someone or post it to social media to boldly own the value of what you offer.
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298-Myth #11- Doing It All Myself Will Save Money

DOING IT ALL ALONE ISN'T FRUITFUL- It's easy to believe that doing everything yourself is the best way to save money when starting or growing your coaching business. It might feel like a smart move to DIY your website, social media, and bookkeeping, but the truth is, trying to handle it all can cost you more in the long run: more time, more stress, and even lost income. You’ll hear how doing too much affected my own coaching journey, and why focusing on your strengths while outsourcing the rest is actually the smartest investment you can make.
Key Takeaways:
Your time is your most valuable asset—spending it outside your zone of genius drains energy and delays growth.
Outsourcing isn’t just an expense—it’s a strategic investment that helps you serve more clients and make more money.
In the early stages of your business, fancy tools and branding aren’t necessary—what you really need is paying clients and real experience.
Listener Challenge:Grab a pen and paper. List out three tasks you’re currently doing that could be delegated or outsourced. Think about what’s draining your time and energy—maybe it’s admin work, designing graphics, or managing your inbox. Now, take one step toward getting help with at least one of them this week—whether that’s asking for a referral, checking out Fiverr, or posting in a coaching group for support.
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297-Myth #10: If I'm a Great Coach, Clients Will Automatically Find Me

MARKETING IS A MUST- Busting a major myth in the coaching industry: "If I'm a great coach, clients will automatically find me." Many new coaches believe that being skilled is enough, but running a coaching business means understanding marketing, visibility, and outreach. In this episode, we’ll break down why coaching is different from a coaching business, why marketing is not a dirty word, and practical steps to attract the right clients. If you’ve been waiting for clients to show up without putting yourself out there, this episode will be the wake-up call you need.
Key Takeaways:
Marketing is not manipulative—it’s simply sharing how you help people. If people don’t know what you do, how can they choose to work with you?
Being a great coach doesn’t guarantee clients. Businesses require marketing, networking, and visibility to attract and retain customers.
You must decide what kind of coaching career you want. Do you want to work for someone else or build a business that allows you to work for yourself?
Listener Challenge: Take action today!
Write down three ways you can intentionally market yourself this week- whether it’s posting valuable content, reaching out to potential clients, asking for referrals, or networking with others.
Identify one platform where you can experiment consistently sharing your expertise (blog, podcast, YouTube, social media, or speaking engagements).
Say out loud: "I’m a life coach, and I help people." Then, tell at least one person what you do and how you can help them.
Resources Mentioned:
Called to Coach Course: Learn the SOCOCA system to grow and scale your coaching business. 
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296-Myth #9: Self-Doubt and Imposter Syndrome Prove I Shouldn’t Coach

SELF DOUBT- Do you ever feel like you’re not qualified enough to coach others? That any moment, someone will “find out” you’re not as capable as they think? You’re not alone. In this episode, we’re tackling the myth that self-doubt means you lack credibility, capability, or calling. We’ll unpack the truth about imposter syndrome, why it’s actually a sign of growth, and how you can build confidence through action.
Key Takeaways:
Self-Doubt Doesn’t Disqualify You – Imposter syndrome is common, especially for high achievers. Feeling uncertain doesn’t mean you lack value—it means you care about doing your best.
Your Impact Is Greater Than Your Fear – Instead of focusing on what you lack, reflect on the ways you’ve already made a difference. Keeping a "confidence folder" with past wins can remind you of your impact.
Confidence Comes from Action – Growth happens when you step outside your comfort zone. The more you show up, the more you prove to yourself (and others) that you are capable.
Listener Challenge:Take a moment today to combat imposter syndrome:
Write down three moments when you’ve made a difference for a client.
Reflect on how those moments demonstrate your value as a coach.
Share one of those wins publicly—on social media, in a blog post, or with a friend—to inspire others and reinforce your confidence.
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295-Myth #8: I Can't Charge Much for Just ‘Talking’ or ‘Listening’ To People

PRICES REFLECT VALUE, NOT TIME- Many coaches struggle with pricing their services because they believe they’re simply “talking” to people. In this episode, we bust the myth that coaching isn’t worth premium pricing and explore why your fees should reflect the transformation you provide, not just the time you spend. Learn how to confidently communicate your value, set prices that match your impact, and shift your mindset from trading time for money to charging based on results.
Key Takeaways:
Coaching isn’t just about conversation—it’s about transformation. Your clients aren’t paying for your time; they’re paying for the clarity, breakthroughs, and action plans you help them create.
Undercharging devalues your work and leads to burnout. Pricing should reflect the depth of the impact you provide.
Confidence in your pricing starts with understanding the real results you deliver. Clearly communicate the benefits of working with you. If you aren't quite sure in the beginning, ask your clients to get language for the results they are getting!
Shift from charging for time to charging for results. Packages, programs, and higher pricing models help you earn more without overworking.
Listener Challenge:
Take a moment to assess your current pricing. Does it truly reflect the value you provide? If not, rewrite your pricing based on transformation, not time. Then, practice using this value-based pricing script when discussing your fees with potential clients:
"My coaching program isn’t just about our sessions together—it’s about the transformation you’ll experience. Clients who work with me [achieve specific result] within [timeframe]. The investment for this level of support is [$X], because I’m committed to helping you get real, lasting results."
Say it out loud, practice with a friend, or even record yourself saying it. Then, share your biggest insight from today’s episode on social media and tag me!
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294-Myth #7: Anyone Can Be My Ideal Client

YOU'RE NOBODY'S ALL IN ALL- Defining your ideal client changes everything in your coaching business. While a niche tells people what you do, your ideal client defines exactly who you serve, making your messaging clearer and more compelling. In this episode, we break down the biggest myths about ideal clients, why coaches resist niching down, and how getting specific actually attracts more of the right people. You'll hear real-world examples of how clarity transforms your marketing and business growth. Plus, I’ll walk you through a step-by-step process to define your ideal client so you can start speaking directly to the people who need you most.
Key Takeaways:
A niche defines what you do, but an ideal client defines who you serve—getting clear on both makes marketing and messaging much easier.
Fear of excluding people often holds coaches back, but specificity actually attracts more of the right clients who truly resonate with your work.
Defining your ideal client is about speaking directly to their struggles, goals, and desires—when you do that, they instantly recognize you as the coach for them.
Listener Challenge: 
✏ Write a detailed description of your ideal client. Think about:
Who they are (age, background, life stage).
What they struggle with.
What they want most.
How you can help them.
Once you do that, take it one step further: Write a single sentence that describes who you help and how. For example: "I help [specific type of person] achieve [specific goal] by [your coaching method].” Then, share it! Post it on social media, send it to me in a message, or tell someone about it. The more clarity you have, the easier it will be to attract the right clients—the ones who need what you offer most.
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