CHRISTIAN LIFE COACH COLLECTIVE~ Women Making Impact and Income as Coaches

292-Myth #5- Coaching is Only For Stuck People with Big Problems

SEE POTENTIAL: NOT PROBLEMS- Coaching isn’t just for those feeling stuck or dealing with challenges- it’s for anyone who wants to grow, optimize their potential, and take their success to the next level. In this episode, we debunk the myth that coaching is only for people who feel stuck and explore why the most accomplished leaders, athletes, and entrepreneurs all invest in coaching. You’ll learn how shifting your mindset around coaching can unlock new levels of clarity, performance, and success. Plus, I’ll challenge you to reflect on where you could benefit from coaching and how you can position it as a tool for growth, not just problem-solving.
Key Takeaways:
Coaching isn’t about fixing what’s broken—it’s about unlocking potential and accelerating success for high achievers.
The most successful people in the world have coaches because they know outside perspective leads to greater clarity, efficiency, and growth.
Reframing coaching as a performance tool, rather than a last resort, helps shift the narrative and attract clients who want to optimize their success.
Listener Challenge:
Take a moment to reflect on your own mindset about coaching. Do you see it as something for people in crisis, or as a tool for growth? Write down one area of your life or work where you know you could benefit from an outside perspective. What would having a coach in that area help you achieve? If you’re feeling bold, share your insights with someone else or journal about what’s holding you back from seeking coaching support. The more we open ourselves up to the idea of growth, the more we allow success to take root. Come up with language that helps you craft your own messaging that emphasizes coaching as a path to growth, not just problem-solving.
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291-Myth #4: Coaching is Just Giving Advice or Teaching

COACHING VS ADVICE- Coaching isn’t about giving advice or being the expert with all the answers. It’s about empowering clients to discover their own solutions by asking powerful questions and listening deeply. This episode explores how to guide clients toward self-discovery and why this approach leads to lasting transformation.
My dear brothers and sisters, understand this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger… James 1:19 
Key Takeaways:
Giving advice creates dependency, while asking questions fosters empowerment and growth.
Open-ended questions and active listening help clients uncover their own motivations and solutions.
Providing tools and frameworks equips clients to navigate challenges independently.
Listener Challenge:In your next coaching session, practice asking open-ended questions and give your client the space to process. Avoid offering advice or solutions—focus on empowering them to find their own answers. Pay attention to how this approach changes the dynamic and strengthens their confidence.
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290-Myth #3: Coaching Is Like Therapy

COACHING VS COUNSELING- Coaching and therapy are not the same—and that’s a good thing! Coaching is about forward momentum, while therapy often dives into healing from the past. In this episode, we’ll explore how to honor these differences, serve your clients ethically, and stay confidently in your coaching lane.
Key Takeaways:
Coaching focuses on the present and future, while therapy works on healing from the past.
It’s essential to recognize when a client needs therapy and refer them to the right professionals.
Staying within your scope of practice protects both you and your client while enhancing trust.
Listener Challenge:Create a referral list of therapists or counselors this week. Take time to connect with them, so you’re ready to refer clients who need support outside of coaching. It’s a small step that makes a big impact.
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289-Myth #2: I Need Lots of Certifications Before I Can Start Coaching

NOT READY YET- Let’s talk about how easy it is to feel like you need one more certification before you’re “ready” to coach. But the truth? Real-life coaching experience and results speak louder than a list of credentials. This episode is all about breaking free from that mindset and stepping into action now, not later.
Key Takeaways:
Certifications are helpful, but they can become an excuse to procrastinate.
Clients care more about your ability to create results than the letters after your name.
The best way to grow as a coach is to coach—experience is the ultimate teacher.
Listener Challenge:Coach one person this week, even if it’s for free. Focus on listening, asking questions, and getting feedback. You’ll learn far more from this than another certification course.
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288-Myth #1: I Don’t Have It All Together- That Disqualifies Me As a Coach

DISQUALIFYING YOURSELF- We are talking about why the idea of being "perfect" or "expert" as a coach is both unrealistic and unnecessary. It’s about guiding others, not being flawless yourself. Embracing your imperfections makes you more relatable and effective as a coach.
Key Takeaways:
Coaching isn’t about being the perfect example; it’s about creating a safe space for others to explore their own growth.
Your messy middle make you more relatable and help build trust with your clients.
Taking imperfect action is the key to progress—both for you and your clients.
Listener Challenge:
Create a list of 3–5 areas where you’re still growing. Reflect on how these areas help you connect with your clients.
Share authentically about one of your growth areas on social media, in a conversation, or in your journal.
Take one imperfect action this week to move forward, even if it feels uncomfortable.
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287-Start Your Day with Intention: 3 Morning Practices to Enhance Your Life

INTENTION & VISION- In today’s episode, we explore how to set the tone for a fruitful and fulfilling day with three intentional morning practices. These three simple, practical habits will help you strengthen your relationship with God, clarify your priorities, and cultivate a mindset for success. Plus, download a free resource with prompts to help you start your own morning vision practice!
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Key Takeaways
Impact of Intentional Mornings
How you begin your day impacts your mindset, energy, and focus.
Creating routines that center on Jesus and your goals builds a foundation for a fruitful life.
Listener Challenge: Commit to these three things for the next five mornings:
Talk to Jesus First: Spend 5–10 minutes in conversation with Him before starting your day.
Enjoy the Silence: Skip the distractions and spend your morning in intentional quiet, reflecting on your thoughts and connecting with God.
Write Your Morning Vision: Use a page of paper to write out how you want to face the day, focusing on joy, peace, and purpose.
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286-Discover a New Season of Identity, Purpose, and Belonging

NEW SEASONS- step into a new season with confidence, hope, and alignment. You're invited on a journey to discover your true identity, purpose, and belonging as a coach. Learn how to shift your paradigm, embrace your journey without judgment, and partner with God to create lasting change in your life and the lives of others.
VIParts of this episode:
Key Takeaways
Your Identity, Purpose, and Belonging Are Already Within You
These truths are foundational, and discovering them requires courage, curiosity, and action.
Shifting Your Paradigm Leads to Transformation
Align your thoughts and beliefs with God's truth to influence your emotions, actions, and the legacy you leave behind.
God is a Loving Father, Not a Taskmaster
Step into your role as an adopted son or daughter, leaving behind the mindset of scarcity and fear.
Seasons Are an Opportunity for Growth
Whether it’s January or any other time, approach each new season with intention, clarity, and partnership with God.
Personal Responsibility is Empowering
Take ownership of your thoughts, actions, and the lies you’ve believed. You have the power to choose truth and live in freedom.
Listener Challenge
Reflect: Take 15 minutes to sit down with a pen and paper or your favorite notes app. Write out the following:
What do I desire in this season?
What has God already spoken over my life?
What promises or prophetic words have not yet come to pass?
Plan: Identify 1–3 actionable steps you can take this week to align with those desires and promises. Write them down and commit to following through.
Shift Your Paradigm: Each day this week, practice speaking this affirmation:"I am worthy of love, growth, and hope. I am stepping into this season with courage and intention."
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285-The Guide to Dealing with “Christmas Crash”

CREATING HOPE-This season may feel like a lull or even a letdown after the excitement of the holidays, but remember: God is at work even in the stillness. As you reset, recenter, and refocus, trust that He is leading you into a season filled with hope, growth, and new opportunities to fulfill His purposes in your life. Let’s step into this next season together, anchored in Jesus, full of hope, and ready to move forward with fresh vision.
VIParts of this episode:
Key Takeaways
It’s normal to feel a post-holiday crash, but Jesus invites us to find rest and renewal in Him.
Reconnecting with Jesus through gratitude, worship, and prayer helps you realign your focus for the next season.
Fresh vision and hope are birthed from seeking God’s heart and trusting in His plans for you.
You don’t need to have it all figured out; simply take the next step and trust His guidance.
Listener Challenge
Take the Post-Holiday Reset Challenge:
Choose seven of the things from the list I gave you or create your own idea, and do one of them each day between Christmas and new year’s. This way you have a goal for each day is refreshing and recentering that you can find joy in.
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Resources mentioned:
Women of Destiny Bible
Care and Counsel Bible
CSB Grace Bible
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#96- 7 Ways to Deal with the Post-Big Day Letdown
#98- Hope and Declarations for the Next Season
#101-116- The Fresh Start Series
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284-The Anticipation and Exhaustion of Big Days

HIGHS AND LOWS- The Christmas season is a beautiful time of celebration, but it's also an opportunity for spiritual growth, reflection, and peace. If you feel exhausted after the holidays, know that you're not alone, and there are practical steps you can take to recover and reset.
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Key Takeaways
Anticipation Creates Excitement: The lead-up to Christmas is filled with hope and joy, as we prepare for something wonderful.
The Post-Christmas Crash Is Normal: The drop in excitement after Christmas is a physiological and emotional response that many people experience.
We Need Rest and Reflection: Both physically and spiritually, Christmas can take a lot out of us. It’s important to rest, recharge, and reflect on the true meaning of the season.
Listener Challenge: After the excitement of Christmas is over, take time to reflect on three things you’re grateful for and share this with someone in your life. Celebrate Christ intentionally by reading a scripture or attending a worship service during Advent. Plan something joyful for the week after Christmas to ease the post-holiday lull.
 
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283-Stop Right Now and Do This One Thing!

ONE CONSISTENT HABIT = MAJOR IMPACT- Today's topic is something everyone tells me they know is important but they aren't sure of why they don't value it enough to do it consistently or even do it at all. It's a practice that is often overlooked yet has the power to transform your mindset, relationships, and overall outlook on life. You may think you know it, but stick around—you might be surprised. Join me in a conversation about THE one thing that will help you walk through His gates and into His courts. 
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Key Takeaways
Small Shifts Create Big Impact
By focusing on simple daily practices, you can uncover hidden joys and reframe challenges into opportunities.
Why What You Overlook Matters Most
The most transformative moments are often hidden in the busyness of life or behind struggles. Pausing to notice these shifts your perspective and enriches your journey.
Action Leads to Transformation
Making intentional steps to practice what we discuss today builds resilience, enhances your relationships, and reconnects you with deeper purpose.
Listener Challenge
For the next 7 days, implement one act of daily reflection:
Write down one thing you’re thankful for, even in a stressful moment.
Send a heartfelt “thank you” message to someone each day.
Find one complaint and turn it into an opportunity for gratitude.
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